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Let $gl_S(n,F) = \{x \in gl(n,F) : x^\tau S=-Sx\}$. I have already established that if $P$ is an invertible matrix and $T=P^{\tau}SP$ then $gl_S(n,F) \cong gl_T(n,F)$ by the map $x \rightarrow P^{-1}xP$.
I am now wondering when the converse holds; that is, if $gl_S(n,F) \cong gl_T(n,F)$, then is $S \cong T$ under the equivalence relation of congruence of matrices? More specifically, does it hold over $\mathbb{C}$?
Insights, hints, and complete explanations are all welcome :D