If differentials are just an increment ratio of x and y along a tangent with slope f'(x), why are differentials thought of as being "incredibly" (or if you want to get murdered) "infinitesimally" small? Does it not remain true that on a tangent with slope f'(x), that dy/dx = Δy/Δx is the same ratio for all increments of x?
It was my understanding that the only reason we are able to say that dy/dx = Δy/Δx = f'(x) is because if y is a linear function of x, then the limit as Δx approaches 0 for the increment ratio Δy/Δx is the same as the ratio Δy/Δx when the limit is not computed. Or
dy/dx = limit Δx→0 Δy/Δx = Δy/Δx = f'(x), or simply dy/dx = Δy/Δx = f'(x) (when y is a linear function of x).
So why is there the unspoken convention that dy and dx are very small increments?