Let us denote the projection matrix onto the column space of $A$ by $\pi_A = A(A^T A)^{-1} A^T$. I am looking for geometric intuition as to why it is symmetric. It is very clear to me due to plenty of algebraic reasons (taking transpose, showing $\left \langle \pi_A u,v \right \rangle=\left \langle u,\pi_A v \right \rangle$ and so on...), but I am looking for something of the sort of "proof without words" which could be explained with pictures.
For example, it is clear to me that $\pi_A^2=\pi_A$, since projecting a vector which is already in $\text{col}(A)$ onto $\text{col}(A)$, is itself. Same goes to show $\pi_A A = A$.
I saw many posts addressing this problem, however all the explanations I read resorted to over-killing with calculations.