What is an "element of a group"?
We have a theory (Called GRP), in the sense of first order logic, whose models are exactly groups. The Language of this theory is
$$(1, \cdot, {}^{-1})$$
where $1$ is a constant symbol, $\cdot$ is an (infix) binary function, and ${}^{-1}$ is a (postfix) unary function.
The Axioms are well known:
- $\forall x . 1 \cdot x = x \cdot 1 = x$
- $\forall x . x \cdot x^{-1} = x^{-1} \cdot x = 1$
- $\forall x. \forall y . \forall z . (x \cdot y) \cdot z = x \cdot (y \cdot z)$
I ask again, what is an "element of a group"? A model theorist would say it is a member of a Model of the theory of groups.
Now - what is a "set"?
We have a theory (called ZFC), in the sense of first order logic, whose models are exactly "set theories". The Language of this theory is
$$(\in)$$
where $\in$ is a (infix) binary relation.
The Axioms are well known (and too long for me to bother writing down).
I ask again, what is a "set"? A model theorist would say it is a member of a Model of the theory ZFC.
The only hiccup is that to formalize the notion of a "model", we use sets. So really we're working on two different levels of sets. We have the "external" sets, which we use to talk about groups (and internal sets), and the "internal" sets, which are analogous to group elements, and are the things we talk about.
The great tragedy of mathematical philosophy is that there is no end to this rabbit hole. It's turtles all the way down, and you have to accept that, at some point, we must be informal with our notion of "set". There has been much ink spilled over this, so I won't waste any more, but it's a very interesting issue, and has led to lots of interesting math.
I hope this helps ^_^