I am reading a lecture note here and it says the following:
If we have a doubly indexed family of nonnegative numbers $a_{ij}, \ i, \ j \in \mathbb{N}$ and if either (i) the numbers are nonnegative, or (ii) the sum $\sum_{(i,j)} a_{ij}$ is absolutely convergent, then
$$ \sum_{i=1}^\infty \sum_{j=1}^\infty a_{ij} = \sum_{j=1}^\infty \sum_{i=1}^\infty a_{ij} = \sum_{(i,j) \in \mathbb{N}^2} a_{ij}$$
More important, we stress that the first equality need not hold in the absence of conditions (i) and (ii).
I am not sure why the last comment holds regarding the first equality where we change the order of the summation. Is there any well known counter-example?