Suppose a family has two children. The probability of a child being a boy is $1/2$, independent of the other. If we are given that one child is a boy, what is the probability the other is a boy as well.
I would calculate the probability as follows:
$$P(\text{two boys | at least one boy)} = \dfrac{P(\text{two boys)}}{P(\text{at least one boy})}.$$
Now, the probability of having two boys is clearly $1/4$. The bit that troubles me is the probability of having one boy. I see two ways to tackle this:
Suppose we count the children as (child 1, child 2). Then there are four possibilities: (boy, girl), (girl, boy), (boy, boy), (girl, girl). Then $P(\text{at least one boy})= 3/4$.
On the other hand, suppose I count the children not in order, but like {child 1, child 2}. Then there are $4-1$ possibilities: {boy, girl} = {girl, boy}, {boy, boy}, {girl, girl}. Hence $P(\text{at least one boy})= 2/3$
These give different answers... What should I do?