I was given in class the following definitions:
Definition 1 The Lie algebra $\mathfrak{so}(n)$ is defined as the subspace of the matrices $ A \in \mathfrak{gl}(n)$ such that $AJ + JA^{t} = 0$, with $J \in \mathfrak{gl}(n)$ and
$J= \begin{pmatrix} 0 & 0 & ....& 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 0 & .... & 1 & 0\\ .. & .. & .. & ..& .. \\ 0 & 1 & ....& 0 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 & ....& 0 & 0 \\ \end{pmatrix}$
In other words, $J$ has the secondary diagonal with all entries equal to 1 and all the other entries are zero.
Definition 2 The Lie algebra $\mathfrak{sp}(2n)$ is defined as the subspace of the matrices $A \in \mathfrak{gl}(2n)$ such that $AJ + JA^{t} = 0$, with $J \in \mathfrak{gl}(2n)$ and
$J= \begin{pmatrix} 0 &...& 0 & 0 &...& 1 \\ & & . &. & &. \\ . & & . &. & &. \\ 0 &...& 0 & 1 &...& 0 \\ 0 &...& -1 & 0 &...& 0 \\ . & & . &. & &. \\ . & & . &. & &. \\ -1 &...& 0 & 0 &...& 0 \\ \end{pmatrix}$
In other words $J$ has the secondary diagonal with a sequence of n entries equal to 1 and a sequence of n entries equal to -1. All the other entries are zero.
Now, is there a standard way in which such matrices are presented? For example, I know that a matrix $A \in \mathfrak{sp}(4)$ can have the following form:
$A = \begin{pmatrix} t_1 & a & z & x \\ b & t_2 & y & z \\ u & s & -t_2 & -a \\ t & u & -b & -t_1 \\ \end{pmatrix}$
What is the analogue form for the matrices $A \in \mathfrak{so}(4)$ (or for $\mathfrak{so}(n)$)? Is the following correct, for $\mathfrak{so}(4)$?
$A = \begin{pmatrix} t_1 & a & z & x \\ b & t_2 & y & z \\ u & s & t_2 & a \\ t & u & b & t_1 \\ \end{pmatrix}$
Does it mean that in the general case for $n$, the matrix $A$ would be like the case $n=4$, but with random rows separating the two upper blocks from the two lower blocks?