This is something I've wondered about for a while now; What is so special about normal subgroups that makes modding out by them "act nice"?
I understand the proofs for things like the first isomorphism theorem, but all these proofs really seem to do is verify that we can mod out by any sub-group satisfying $gNg^{-1} = N$ and end up with another group. I get the verification; that's not what I'm asking about.
It's possible to mod out by any subgroup, but what's so special about the property $gNg^{-1} = N$ that makes it so that we can "move" $N$ around inside $G$ in a way that satisfies the group axioms? Is there something deeper about the normality property that makes this make sense?
I might be asking a question that doesn't have any kind of deeper answer; Perhaps it's just a brute fact. But when I think of the group $G/N$ as "the group consisting of ways to move $N$ inside of $G$", I'm left puzzled why $N$ being normal gives this collection of movements a group structure, but movements of a non-normal subgroup don't have a group structure.
– Bears Jan 10 '20 at 00:07