How can I prove the that the statements,
(i) $aha^{-1} \in H$ for each $h \in H$
(ii) $a^{-1}ha \in H$ for each $h \in H$
are not equivalent for any particular $a \in G$? I have been trying to come up with a counterexample but I have been unsuccessful. Evidently I would need to find an infinite group which satisfies this, since inductively,
$ \forall h \in H ( aha^{-1} \in H ) \implies \forall h \in H \; \forall n \in \mathbb{N}^+ (a^n h a^{-n} \in H)$
As was pointed out by user Robert Shore.