As mentioned in other answers, this case is relatively simple because the symmetry of the equation leads immediately to the principal axes being parallel to the vectors $(1,1)$ and $(-1,1)$, which then gets you a parameterization that uses these principal axes of the ellipse. More generally, you can work out the required rotation directly.
First thing’s first, however: how do you tell that the equation represents an ellipse? Examine its discriminant, which in this case is $4^2-4(-3)(-3)=-32\lt0$, which indicates an ellipse. If it were positive, you’d have a hyperbola, while if zero a parabola. (I’m ignoring the possibility of a degenerate conic here.)
Now, we want to find an angle of rotation $\phi$ that eliminates the cross term in $xy$. Applying the rotation to the general conic equation $Ax^2+Bxy+Cy^2+\dots=0$ (the linear and constant terms don’t contribute to this) leads to the condition $$2(A-C)\cos\phi\sin\phi+B(\cos^2\phi-\sin^2\phi)=0,$$ or $$\tan{2\phi}=\frac B{C-A}.$$ For your ellipse, $C-A=0$, therefore $\phi=\pm\pi/4+n\pi.$ Note that you don’t really need to know $\phi$ itself to apply the rotation, so using half-angle formulas you can get explicit expressions for $\sin\phi$ and $\cos\phi$ in terms of $A$, $B$ and $C$.
Alternatively, for a parameterization of the form $\mathbf u\cos t+\mathbf v\sin t+\mathbf c$, the vectors $\mathbf u$ and $\mathbf v$ don’t need to be the principal half-axes of the ellipse: any pair of conjugate half-diameters will do. These can be found by choosing any convenient value for $\mathbf u$ and then using the fact that the conjugate diameter is parallel to the tangent at the point $\mathbf u+\mathbf c$.
Finally, there are other ways to parameterize an ellipse. You might find a rational parameterization more convenient for some purposes. For instance, let $p_0$ be a point on the ellipse that has an extreme $x$-value so that the tangent at that point is vertical. Compute the other intersection of the line through $p_0$ has slope $m$ with the ellipse. This gives you a parameterization in terms of the slope of the chords through $p_0$.