Say I am on a point $(x^*,y^*)$ of a function $f(x,y)$ where the function value increases if I go a very small step in any positive direction (i.e. in the direction of a vector where the coordinates $x$ and $y$ are both positive), but the function increases MORE if I go in a very small step in another direction, say a vector where the $x$-coordinate is positive but the $y$-coordinate is negative. Doesn't that mean that the gradient does not point in the direction of steepest ascent?
There was a great answer in this thread about seeing the region around the point as "almost planar", but I still don't see why the function can't be differentiable in that point and still increase in both directions (even if its by a infinitesimal amount), and increase just a little bit more in one direction than another. Does it really HAVE to mean that there is a sharp turn just at that point? Why can't it be smooth but still not planar?
I have drawn two examples where I am imagining that the point I am evaluating the gradient at is $(0,0)$. From there, it is supposed to be steeper to go in the direction of $(-ax, -by)$ than $(ax, by)$:
I am fairly new to math and very technical explanations are still hard for me to understand. I know I am asking for much, but additional ways of looking at it which are not algebraic would help me the most.
Thanks.