It seems that you are referring to multiplication in $\mathbb R$.
The geometric answer to this question is
Multiplication in a division ring $D$ is commutative precisely when the plane $D\times D$ satisfies the theorem of Pappus.
So in principle, you can take $\mathbb R\times \mathbb R$ and "forget" that commutativity works, and then use the fact that Pappus' theorem holds to deduce that multiplication is commutative.
I think these books at least contain proofs
Artin, Emil. Geometric algebra. Courier Dover Publications, 2016.
Kaplansky, Irving. Linear algebra and geometry: a second course. Courier Corporation, 2003.
Hartshorne, Robin. Geometry: Euclid and beyond. Springer Science & Business Media, 2013.
In Hilbert, David. The foundations of geometry. Open court publishing Company, 1902. Hilbert proves that real multiplication is commutative because Pascal's theorem holds in the real plane, but I think the idea is that you also need the division ring to be Archimedian to imply that it also satisfies Pappus' theorem.
This information is sort of hard to find because so often we axiomatize $\mathbb R$ by assuming commutativity. In contrast, the above books discuss constructing the real line and real plane with geometric axioms, and then one can build an "algebra of segments" which turns out to be nothing more or less than $\mathbb R$.