Define that a pair $(X,\tau)$ where $\tau \subseteq \mathcal{P}(X)$, is a Hausdorff space if for all distinct $a,b \in X$ there exist $A,B \in \tau$ such that $$a \in A, \;b \in B, \;A \cap B = \emptyset.$$
Note that a Hausdorff space, according to this definition, needn't be a topological space, and vice versa.
Call the elements of $\tau$ "open sets", whether or not $\tau$ is a topology.
Then many of the definitions of topological spaces apply equally well to Hausdorff spaces. In particular, the notion of a convergent sequence can be defined as per usual.
In particular, define that a sequence $x : \mathbb{N} \rightarrow X$ converges iff there exists $a \in X$ such that for all open $A$ such that $a \in A$, there exists $N$ such that for all $n \geq N$ it holds that $x_n \in A$.
Then we can write this proof to show that every convergent sequence in $X$ has a unique limit. (i.e. $a$ is unique).
Presumably, the more general result that every net has a unique limit can also be proven.
So why not study limits in arbitrary Hausdorff spaces? What goes wrong when we neglect to assume statements like, "The arbitrary union of open sets is open"?
Edit: So to clarify, my interest lies in the interaction between the topological space axioms and the Hausdorff axiom. What is it about a Hausdorff topological space that is so magical? There must be some sort of synergy going on, or they would have been studied independently of one another.
Note that we can define continuity of functions between topological spaces in terms of preimages of open sets. Lets call this "pre-images continuous." And we can define continuity of functions between Hausdorff spaces in terms of limits of nets. Lets call this "limit-continuous." Perhaps these notions coincide precisely in the case of Hausdorff topological spaces?
Note also that the topology generated by a Hausdorff space is necessarily Hausdorff. So for any Hausdorff space $X$, lets $X'$ denote the (necessarily Hausdorff) topological space generated by $X$. Perhaps a function $f : X \rightarrow Y$ between Hausdorff spaces is limit-continuous if and only if $f : X' \rightarrow Y'$ is (open-preimages)-continuous.