This question is very similar to MSE question 2861768 and several
other questions.
The idea from these questions is to use the Stolz theorem.
For simplicity, define
$\,f(x) := (\sqrt{4x^2+x^4}-x^2)/2.\,$ Define a sequence
$\,a_{n+1} = f(a_n)\,$ where $\,a_1>0.\,$
Next, define
$$ b_n := 1/a_n, \quad\text{and} \quad
e(x) := \frac12 + x\sqrt{1+\frac1{4x^2}} \tag{1}$$
where
$\, b_{n+1} = e(b_n)\,$ and
$\,\lim_{ x\to \infty} e(x)-x = \frac12.\,$ By the Stolz theorem
we get $\, b_n = \frac{n}2 + O(1)\,$ and thus,
$\, a_n = \frac2{n} + O(n^{-2}).$
The inverse function of $\,f(x)\,$ is $\,f^{(-1)}(x) = x/\sqrt{1-x},\,$ and we get
$$ \mu_n := a_n\!\left(\!\frac1{a_{n-1}}
\!-\! 1 \!\right)\!=\!
a_n\!\left(\!\frac{\sqrt{1\!-\!a_n}}{a_n}
\!-\! 1\!\right) \!=\! 1 \!-\! \frac32 a_n
\!+\! O(a_n^2) \tag{2}$$
but since $\,a_n = 2/n + O(n^{-2})\,$ now
$\, \mu_n = 1 - 3/n + O(n^{-2}) \,$ which is what we wanted to prove.
ADVANCED results (only if you are interested):
Define $\,x := 1/n, \, y := \ln(x).\,$
For some constant $\,c\,$ only depending on $\,a_1,\,$
for example, if $\,a_1=1\,$ then $\,c \approx -1.2929418036,\,$
we get an expansion of $\,a_n = g(1/n) = h(2n-c-\ln(2))\,$ where $$ g(x) \approx
2\,x + (c+y)\,x^2 +((c+c^2) + (1+2c)y + y^2)\,x^3/2 + O(x^4) \tag{3}$$
and
$$ h(x) \approx 4 / (x + \ln(x + \ln(x + \frac16 + \ln(x + \frac{29}{72} + \ln(x + \frac{437}{640} + \dots))))). \tag{4}$$
The expansion $(3)$ implies that
$$ a_{n+1}(1/a_n - 1) = 1 - 3\,x + (-1-3c-3y)\,x^2/2 + O(x^3). \tag{5}$$
Notice that $\,\frac1{n+1}=\frac{x}{x+1}\,$ and thus the recursion for $\,a_n\,$ is equivalent to $\,g(\frac{x}{1+x}) = f(g(x))\,$ and from which the coefficients of the series expansion of $\,g(x)\,$ can be solved for term by term.
MSE question 3215 has an answer to the question of the convergence rate of $\,a_n\,$ for general $\,f(x).\,$