Here's another method which almost entirely avoids working with matrices.
Let $V$ be a finite dimensional vector space. We will show that the center of $\text{Aut}(V)$ consists precisely of the maps which are of the form $(x\mapsto \lambda x)$ for some nonzero scalar $\lambda$.
If $V$ is $0$ or $1$-dimensional, this is trivial. So assume that $\dim V\geq 2$ from now on. The first important observation is that if the operator $A$ commutes with the operator $B$, then $A$ preserves the eigenspaces of $B$. For suppose that $v$ is an eigenvector of $B$ with eigenvalue $\lambda$. Then $$B(Av)=ABv=A(\lambda v)=\lambda Av$$ Thus $A$ sends the eigenspace corresponding to $\lambda$ to itself.
The next lemma we will use is this:
If every non-zero vector of $V$ is an eigenvector of the operator $A$, then $A=(x\mapsto \lambda x)$ for some scalar $\lambda$.
This, I leave for you to prove. We will show that if $A$ is an element of $\text{Aut}(V)$ which commutes with all operators, then every nonzero vector of $V$ is an eigenvector of $A$ which will then imply that $A$ corresponds to scalar multiplication.
How will we go about doing this? It would be nice if for each nonzero vector $v_1\in V$, there is an invertible operator $B$ whose only eigenvectors consist of $\text{span}(v_1)$. This is indeed the case. First extend $\{v_1\}$ to the ordered basis $\{v_1, v_2, \ldots,v_n\}$. Then let $B$ be the linear extension of the map which sends $v_1$ to itself and sends $v_i$ to $v_i+v_{i-1}$ for all other $i$ (with respect to this basis, this operator would look like a Jordan Block consisting entirely of 1s). One can show that $B$ only has $\text{span}(v_1)$ as its only eigenspace (with eigenvalue $1$). Since, by assumption, $A$ commutes with $B$, we have that $A$ sends $v_1$ to a scalar multiple of $v_1$. Thus every vector of $V$ is an eigenvector of $A$; hence $A$ must be scalar multiplication by some (nonzero) scalar.
Now, note that $GL_n(K)$ is isomorphic to the automorphism group of an $n$-dimensional vector space over $K$. Every isomorphism corresponds to a choice of ordered basis for $V$. This isomorphism is going to carry the center of $\text{Aut}(V)$ to the center of $GL_n(K)$. But under any choice of basis for $V$, we have that the matrix representation of the operator $(x\mapsto\lambda x)$ is a diagonal matrix with $\lambda$s on the diagonal.