Recently in the chat, we are doing some studies on properties of infinite Dedekind finite sets (iD-finite sets). We started with the basics by trying to prove that weakly even and weakly odd iD-finite sets have the same properties as when adding even and odd natural numbers
Let $D$ be a iD-finite set. Then $D$ is weakly even if $D$ can be expressed as a disjoint union of pairs $\{a,b\}$ and weakly odd if $D$ can be expressed as a disjoint union of pairs plus a singleton.
In this answer, it is mentioned that $D$ can be weakly even, weakly odd but never both. Intrigued, we tried to prove that via a proof by contradiction:
Attempt proof: Let $D$ be iD-finite. Suppose $D$ is both weakly even and weakly odd. Then there exists a bijection $f : C \mapsto A$ such that:
$$|D|=|A|=|C|$$
where $$A = \bigsqcup_{a,b} \{a,b\}$$ and
$$C = \bigsqcup_{c,d} \{c,d\} + \{e\}$$
Since $A, C$ are iD-finite, $K = f (\bigsqcup_{c,d} \{c,d\})$ and $K \subsetneq A$. Therefore what remains is to show that any bijection between $A-K$ and $f(\{e\})$ will lead to a contradiction. However, I cannot seemed to find any suitable bijection or otherwise to guarentee that
$$f(\{e\}) \subsetneq A - K$$
Because these are Dedekind cardinals, I cannot really trust my intuition that the difference between a collection of pairs must be a pair (and I cannot use the fact weakly even + weakly even = weakly even either because the same strategy is used as in this attempted proof). How can I show a Dedekind cardinal of pairs cannot be surreally decomposed to give an extra singleton?