We are in a similar situation as in the following links.
(And in many others. There is not too much to say about why the chance to win is > 1/2, but as i started a wrong answer, now i rather correct it instead of deleting it. Very probably i would have not even started an answer form my today position of understanding.)
"My" strategy of play was to choose independently a random variable $Y$ with values in $\{S,T\}$ for some real values $S,T$ with $S<T$, uniformly distributed, then get the probability of win depending on the mean $\mu=EX$ and variance $\sigma^2$ of $X$.
Let $\bar Y = (S+T-Y)$. (So $\bar Y$ is $S$ if and only if $Y$ is $T$.)
Then we have a two-levels experiment, the first level being the choice of the sheet.
Then we have to compute the win probability $W$ with the described strategy
$$
\begin{aligned}
W
=&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>Y\text{ and }\bar Y>Y )+
P( X<Y\text{ and }\bar Y<Y )\
\Big)\\&\qquad\text{[ Sheet A is $Y$ ]}
\\
+&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>\bar Y\text{ and }Y>\bar Y )+
P( X<\bar Y\text{ and }Y<\bar Y )\
\Big)\\&\qquad\text{[ Sheet A is $\bar Y$ ]}
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=&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>Y\text{ and }Y=S )+
P( X<Y\text{ and }Y=T )\
\Big)
\\
+&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>\bar Y\text{ and }Y=T )+
P( X<\bar Y\text{ and }Y=S )\
\Big)
\\[4mm]
=&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>S\text{ and }Y=S )+
P( X<T\text{ and }Y=T )\
\Big)
\\
+&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>S\text{ and }Y=T )+
P( X<T\text{ and }Y=S )\
\Big)
\\[4mm]
=&
\frac 12\Big(
\ P( X>S)+
P( X<T)\
\Big)
\\
=&
\frac 12+\frac 12 P(S\le X\le T)\ .
\end{aligned}
$$
Same as in the question.
There is nothing new above, only that i was trying to explain the things for myself in a very special case. Now the question is if there is a strategy that works with a better probability for you, based on the only information of the number of the number in one randomly chosen sheet, and i suppose, we still proceed in the following order:
- you fix a random strategy to keep or switch, for instance the parameters of the gaussian random variable in the original post, and the decision strategy based on it, you tell me the strategy, but not also the (class and) parameters of the random variable,
- i choose two numbers, write them on two sheets, offer the sheets, and to fix the ideas, i will always write two fixed numbers, $S<T$.
- now you make visible one of the numbers, $S$ or $T$, as known from my side. (I assume this step is kept regarding the question "...how do I make substantially more money?" else the strategy could be changed to show both sheets of paper with their numbers.) And with a "simpler" random variable the decision is to switch or keep. For each $s\in \Bbb R$ let $k(s)\in[0,1]$ be the probability to keep the $s$. This depends on the strategy chosen. So in our case, only the numbers $k(S)$ and $k(T)$ do matter.
Now to the question. Fix some $\epsilon >0$. We have an infinite family $(k(s))_{s\in\Bbb R}$ of numbers in $[0,1]$. Then we can find two members in the family, $k(S)$ and $k(T)$, so that
$$
|k(S)-k(T)|<\frac {\epsilon}{2018}\ .
$$
If i have the information in $(k(s))_s$, then i am choosing them in this way, and the probability that you win is smaller than $\frac 12+\epsilon$ with an argument similar to the above for a gaussian $X$ implementing the decision to keep the visible sheet.
Even if i do not have the information, there is a chance that i am randomly choosing two numbers $S,T$ with $|k(S)-k(T)|<\epsilon/2018$ with positive probability, so that you cannot "do better than $\frac 12+\epsilon$".