We know that the general equation of a conic is given by $$ax^2 + 2hxy + by^2 + 2gx + 2fy + c = 0$$ We also know that for this conic to be a parabola, the essential conditions are that $$\Delta = \begin{vmatrix} a&h&g\\ h&b&f\\ g&f&c\\ \end{vmatrix} \ne 0$$ and $$h^2 = ab$$ I am interested to find the proof of this.
Also we have been told that to find the center of the conic, perform partial differentiation on the given equation of the conic with respect to x and y separately. Then upon solving the two equations we can find the center. I have checked this very useful and convenient method, but I didn't find the proof of this concept in any standard book or the web. Can anyone please help me with the proof?