As a maths student I use scalar products incredibly often and have gotten used to the fact that $<a,b>=0 $ is equivalent to $a\perp b$. The generalizations on function spaces, etc. are also quite useful (Orthonormal basis have really nice properties). But I realized that I couldn't explain why the scalar product has anything to do with orthogonality.
And looking the scalar product up, it seems it has even more information about angles. Since apparently $<x,y>=||x||\cdot||y|| \text{cos}(\alpha)$ with $\alpha$ being the angle between x and y.
Why does multiplying the individual scalars end up telling us so much about angles? I am mostly interested in an intuition. As I think we did a proof in linear algebra at some point but I only remember that I was disappointed by it in the sense that I still had no idea why this relation existed afterwards. But if you know about a very instructive proof that would be interesting as well
And lastly, is it even possible to get an intuition for scalar products on function spaces, or is that a generalization you can only get used to, but not really understand?