Let $T$ and $V$ be independent random variables that are exponentially distributed with rates $\lambda$ and $\mu$. Consider their maximum,
$$W = \max(T,V)$$
From the answer to a previous post, I know that:
$$ \mathbb{E}[W] = \frac{1}{\mu} + \frac{1}{\lambda} - \frac{1}{\lambda + \mu}$$
I am wondering if someone explain this result intuitively while referring to the memoryless property of the exponential distribution.
Alternatively, can anyone explain out the flaw in the following chain of reasoning, which seems to be correct but leads me to a wrong result.
$\begin{align} \mathbb{E}[W] &= \mathbb{E}[\max(T,V)|V \leq T]\mathbb{P}[V \leq T] &+& \mathbb{E}[\max(T,V)|T \leq V]\mathbb{P}[T \leq V] \\ &= \mathbb{E}[\max(T,V)|V \leq T]\frac{\mu}{\lambda+\mu} &+& \mathbb{E}[\max(T,V)| T \leq V]\frac{\lambda}{\lambda+\mu} \end{align}$
Note that random variable,
$$\max(T,V) \ \big| \ V \leq T$$
is identical to the random variable,
$$\max(T,V) \ \big| \ V = \min(T,V)$$
since if $V$ is less than $T$ then it must be the minimum of the two.
Having said that, I also believe that
$$\max(T,V) \ \big| \ V \leq T$$
should have the same distribution as the random variable,
$$T + \min(T,V)$$
which is apparently wrong.
Here the reasoning is that we have to wait $\min(T,V)$ units of time for the minimum of two events to occur, and then another $T$ units of time for $T$ to occur (given that $V$ was the minimum of both events and that the waiting process restarts itself after $\min(T,V)$ units of time due to the memoryless property of the exponential distribution).