Let $X,Y$ be two discrete random variables. Two joint mass distributions (couplings) with marginals $X$ and $Y$ and with entries $p_{i,j}=\mathbb{P}_1(X=i,Y=j)$ and $p_{i,j}'=\mathbb{P}_2({X=i,Y=j})$ correspond to two matrices $(p_{i,j}), (p_{i,j}').$
Is there a linear transformation that maps $(p_{i,j})\mapsto(p_{i,j}')$?
If not, is there a way to move from a given coupling of $X,Y$ to any other coupling of $X,Y$?
The reason I ask is because I have a coupling of $X,Y$ and I wonder if a specific coupling exists. If there are any results that allow us to go from a given coupling to any other coupling, perhaps this can be used to provide the desired coupling or show that it doesn't exist.