Note that $P \rightarrow \lnot P$ is equivalent to $\lnot P \lor \lnot P$ which essentially is an assertion that $\lnot P$.
$\lnot P$ is true whenever $P$ is false. So the implication $P\rightarrow \lnot P$ is "satisfiable" whenever the truth value of $P$ is false.
Likewise, given $$P \rightarrow (P \rightarrow \lnot P),\tag{1}$$ then $(1)$ is true when $P$ is false; this is because, as we've seen, the conclusion of implication $(1)$ is equivalent to $\lnot P$. So again, we have $P \rightarrow \lnot P$, and thus $\lnot P$, true when $P$ is false.
Now we'll address the non-equivalent (to $(1)$) statement:
$$ P \rightarrow (\lnot P \rightarrow P)\tag{2}$$ $$\iff P \rightarrow (\lnot\lnot P \lor P)$$
$$\iff P \rightarrow (P \lor P)$$
$$\iff P \rightarrow P$$
$P \rightarrow P$ can be read as $(\lnot P \lor P)$ which, as you observed, is a tautology.
Note that this can readily be seen as a tautology without deducing ($P \lor \lnot P$) from $P \rightarrow P$ because...
$\ast$ An implication is false if and only if its premise is true and its conclusion is false.
So given the implication $P \rightarrow P$, either P is true or else P is false: i.e. either true $\rightarrow $ true, or else false $\rightarrow$ false. And so, knowing $(\ast)$ the implication $P \rightarrow P$ cannot ever be false: Whatever the truth-value of $P$, it will never be true that the premise P will be true, while the conclusion P is false. When the premise $P$ is true, then the conclusion, $P$, is true.
As others here have pointed out, material implication ($\rightarrow$), as used in logic, does not correlate well with our intuitive, informal (and sometimes formal) understanding(s) of implication.
John Corcoran wrote a great paper on this problem, surveying the various meanings of implication, both classifying those meanings/uses, and pointing out the differences between them in an effort to better capture what implication means in various contexts. (For anyone interested, I highly recommend that you read Corcoran's "Meanings of Implication," Dialogos 9 (1973) 59–76. Reprinted in R. Hughes, Ed., Philosophical companion to first order logic. Indianapolis: Hackett. 1993.) Here is a link: http://philpapers.org/rec/CORMOI and http://philpapers.org/archive/CORMOI.pdf