For a set of $N$ total objects where there can be repeats (multiple indistinguishable copies of an object), i.e., objects $X_1,...X_m$ such that $|X_1| + ... + |X_m| = N$, the number of distinct distinguishable permutations is given by $$\frac{N!}{|X_1|!*...*|X_m|!}$$ (see distinct permutations using all objects with repeated objects)
Is the number not starting with a given object $X_i$ (i.e, when you write down the permutation, the first object is not a $X_i$) then
$$\frac{N!}{|X_1|!*...*|X_m|!} - \frac{N!}{|X_1|!*...*|X_m|!}*\frac{|X_i|}{N}$$ ?