I am a bit new to presentations and free groups, so of course I am stuck on a very easy question.
I want to prove that $\langle x, y \mid xyx^{-1}y^{-1}\rangle \cong \mathbb{Z} \times \mathbb{Z}$. My proof ideas is the following:
We consider the map $f: \{x, y\} \longrightarrow \mathbb{Z} \times \mathbb{Z}$ with $f(x) = (1,0)$ and $f(y) = (0,1)$. Now by the universal mapping property, there exist a unique homomorphism $\phi: F(\{x, y\}) \longrightarrow \mathbb{Z} \times \mathbb{Z}$, such that $f = \phi \circ \iota$, where $\iota$ is the inclusion map.
Now we need to show, that $\ker \phi = \langle \langle xyx^{-1}y^{-1} \rangle \rangle$.
One direction, $\ker \phi \supseteq \langle \langle xyx^{-1}y^{-1} \rangle \rangle$, is of course fairly easy to verify, as every element in the RHS is of the form $\prod_{i=1}^{n} g_i [x, y]^{e_i} g_i^{-1}$, where $[x, y] = xyx^{-1}y^{-1}$, $g_i$ is any word in $F(\{x, y\})$, and $e_i = \pm 1$.
But how do I show, that every element in the kernel can be expressed in the designated form? Or is there a more convenient way of showing the other inclusion?
Or is my whole proof idea already doomed to fail?
By the way, I am fully aware that there is already a thread (Check in detail that $\langle x,y \mid xyx^{-1}y^{-1} \rangle$ is a presentation for $\mathbb{Z} \times \mathbb{Z}$.) with a highly similar question, but in all those answers, I do not see rigorously proven, why we can use the relation $\langle xyx^{-1}y^{-1}\rangle = \langle xy = yx \rangle$ to simply rearrange all our words in the form $x^ay^b$ and then map them to $\mathbb{Z} \times \mathbb{Z}$. Or put differently, why the kernel of our homomorphism, is PRECISELY $\langle \langle xyx^{-1}y^{-1}\rangle\rangle $.
Thank you!