Let $A$, $B$ be sets and denote by $A\leq^* B$ an assertion that if $A$ is non-empty, then there's a surjection from $B$ onto $A$. This might be understood as a dual definition of cardinality. (Typically we use injections to capture the notion of A not being bigger than B. The $\leq^*$ notation is to be read as B not being smaller than A.)
Is this relation trichotomous without using the axiom of choice? Meaning for every two sets $A$ and $B$, it holds $A\leq^* B$ or $B\leq^* A$. (I would be surprised). Would trichotomy imply some interesting extra-ZF axiom?
More broadly, is there anything to be said about $\leq^*$? For example how does it relate to the usual comparisons of cardinality by injections?
I suspect there's no clear answer, since it is somehow reminiscent of Partition Principle ($A\leq^* B \implies A\leq B$) and Weak Partition Principle ($A\leq^* B \implies B\not< A $) which both are independent of ZF.