Hint $\,\ u = \sqrt n + \sqrt m \in\Bbb Q\ \Rightarrow\ v := \sqrt n - \sqrt m = \dfrac{n-m}{\sqrt n + \sqrt m} = \dfrac{n-m}u\in \Bbb Q.$
Therefore $\ u+v = 2\sqrt n\in \Bbb Q,\,$ contradiction.
Remark $ $ The key idea behind the proof is as follows. If field $\rm\,F\,$ has two $\rm\,F$-linear independent combinations of $\rm\, \sqrt{n},\ \sqrt{m}\, $ then
we can solve for $\rm\, \sqrt{n},\ \sqrt{m}\, $ in $\,\rm F.\,$ In our case we notice $\rm\ F = \mathbb Q(\sqrt{n} + \sqrt{m})\ $ contains the independent $\rm\ \sqrt{n} - \sqrt{m}\ $ since
$$\rm \sqrt{n} - \sqrt{m}\ =\ \dfrac{\ a\,-\,b}{\sqrt{n}+\sqrt{m}}\ \in\ F = \mathbb Q(\sqrt{n}+\sqrt{m}) $$
To be explicit, notice that $\rm\ u = \sqrt{n}+\sqrt{m},\ v = \sqrt{n}-\sqrt{m}\in F\ $ so solving the linear system for the roots yields $\rm\ \sqrt{n}\ =\ (u+v)/2,\ \ \sqrt{m}\ =\ (u-v)/2,\ $ both of which are clearly $\rm\,\in F,\:$ since $\rm\:u,\:v\in F\:$ and $\rm\:2\ne 0\:$ in $\rm\:F,\:$ so $\rm\:1/2\:\in F.\:$ This works over any field where $\rm\:2\ne 0,\:$ i.e. where the determinant (here $2$) of the linear system is invertible, i.e. where the linear combinations $\rm\:u,v\:$ of the square-roots are linearly independent over the base field.
This idea often proves useful , e.g. the Primitive Element Theorem
works that way, obtaining two such independent combinations by
Pigeonholing the infinite set $\rm\ F(\sqrt{a} + r\ \sqrt{b}),\ r \in F,\ |F| = \infty,\,$
into the finitely many fields between F and $\rm\ F(\sqrt{a}, \sqrt{b}),\,$ e.g. see PlanetMath's proof.