I'm currently studying on J.Lee's "Introduction to smooth manifolds", but several other sources I consulted present the same line of thought.
The most natural description of the $n$-dimensional sphere $S^n$ follows from imagining the sphere sitting in $\mathbb{R}^{n+1}$, as the locus of points $x=(x^1,\dots,x^{n+1})$ such that $(x^1)^2+\dots+(x^{n+1})^2=1$.
It is then possible to introduce (for example) the stereographic projection of the points of the sphere and to construct the homeomorphism $\sigma: S^n \setminus \{N\} \mapsto \mathbb{R}^n$. Writing the analogous map $\tilde{\sigma}: S^n \setminus \{S\} \mapsto \mathbb{R}^n$, I get an atlas for $S^n$ and I can prove that it is indeed a smooth manifold.
What puzzles me is that the coordinates of the ambient space have been used to describe the homeomorphisms, while it is always said that manifolds exist in their own right, without the need of embedding them in a bigger space (and I'm aware - thanks to this past discussion - of the difficulties and limitations of the "embed everything"-approach). But then I don't know how to describe smooth charts, i.e. how to specify the point of the manifold that gets a certain coordinate representation under the homeomorphism.
Moreover, when studying the differential geometry of curves and surfaces in $\mathbb{R}^3$, I used to parametrize the object with functions from $\mathbb{R}$ or $\mathbb{R}^2$. This looks as defining the homeomorphisms of my local charts in the opposite direction, but always imagining the curve/surface living in $\mathbb{R}^3$.
So, the questions are:
- Speaking about $S^n$, is there an "intrinsic" way to associate its points with those of $\mathbb{R}^n$ to build the local charts?
- How to proceed with a generic manifold? [Wild guess: As long as I consider surfaces and their higher dimensional generalizations, it is useful and perhaps unavoidable working with their parametrization; what I'm looking for comes out when I study stranger spaces.]
Thanks in advance!
Update: Just this little edit to clarify that I'm most interested in answers to my second question about "the philosophy" of building coordinate charts, which has not been addressed yet.
About my wild guess: as I learn from Hagen's answer, the term "unavoidable" is wrong.