Note: This is my original question. I have been kindly helped to turn this into a correct proof, which I have posted as an answer so this question won't show up as "unanswered".
As an exercise, I am trying to provide a rigorous proof of uniqueness in the Lebesgue Decomposition Thm, assuming we already have existence. I am following the outline provided here. Below is what I have so far
Step 1: Assume $\lambda$ is a finite measure ($\mu$ only needs to be $\sigma$-finite).
- Let $$\lambda=\lambda_1+\lambda_2 = \lambda_3 + \lambda_4, \text{where } \lambda_1, \lambda_3 \perp \mu \text{ and } \lambda_2,\lambda_4 \ll \mu \tag1$$
- Let $\alpha:=\lambda_3 -\lambda_1 =\lambda_2-\lambda_4$
- Extend defns of singular & abs cont to signed measures: (I just do the most intuitive thing here) $\alpha \perp \mu $ means $\exists$ a partition A,B of X s.t. $\alpha(A)= \mu(B)=0$. $\alpha \ll \mu$ means $\mu(E)$=0 implies $\alpha(E)$=0.
- Show $\alpha \perp \mu$ and $\alpha \ll \mu$. This is just checking defns.
- Conclude $\alpha$=0. I'm stuck here. By the previous pt, $\exists$ a partition A,B of X s.t. $\alpha(A)=\mu(B)$=0. Further, $\mu(B)$=0 implies $\alpha(B)=0$. So $\alpha(X)=\alpha(A)+\alpha(B)$=0. But we may have a partition $X_1,X_2$ of X s.t. 0 $< \alpha(X_1)=-\alpha(X_2)$.
Step 2: (General case) $\lambda$ is $\sigma$-finite.
- Let $X_1 \subseteq X_2 \subseteq$..., $X=\cup_{n=1}^{\infty} X_n$, each $\lambda(X_n)< \infty$.
- $\forall n$, $E \in \textbf{X}$, put $\lambda_n(E):=\lambda(E \cap X_n)$, which is a finite measure, so $\exists$ a unique Lebesgue decomp $\lambda_n=\lambda_{1n}+\lambda_{2n}$
- Assume (1) again. Now I don't know how to show $\lambda_1=\lambda_3$. I’m trying to use the previous bullet pt. I think I can show $\lambda=(\lim_{n \to \infty} \lambda_{1n})+ (\lim_{n \to \infty} \lambda_{2n})$ is a Lebesgue Decomp, but how do I know there aren’t others?