It's a bit longer comment so I'll write here (but it's not a solution so I'm deleting when a real answer appears).
I'm thinking along the lines of the sequence
$$f_1=x+4$$
$$f_2=(f_1-4)^2$$
$$f_n=(f_{n-1}-4)^n$$
This is the sequence of radicands, which is divergent for every $x$ except for the one that solves our question. So we're looking for $x$ for which this sequence is monotonically convergent down to $5$. Any minor deviation, and it starts diverging. So we're looking for an unstable critical point of the sequence above.
$(f_n)$ is a sequence of polynomials in $x$:
$$x+4,x^2,x^6-12x^4+48x^2-64,x^{24}-48x^{22}+\cdots$$
The solution is $x$, such as $\lim_{n\to\infty}f_n=5$ exists, but we could restate it as a convergence criterion $\lim_{n\to\infty}\frac{f_{n+1}}{f_n}= 1$. I was hoping that in the limit, only a subset of polynomial coefficients with known asymptotics matter, but here I got stuck, because it appears all of them are important.
Another way of looking at this is to find the largest root of $f_n-5=0$ in the limit $n\to\infty$.
I figured out the first order asymptotics for $f_n$ at the correct $x$:
$$f_n\asymp 5 + \frac{\ln 5}{n}$$
Any thoughts on this approach?