Here is what our professor showed us in our linear algebra class to introduce the idea of determinants:
Suppose we have an $n$-dimensional vector space $V$. Then we can create a function from $V^n$ to $\mathbb{R}$ called $vol$ (for "volume") satisfying these properties:
$vol$ is multilinear
$vol$ is alternating (i.e. if any two of $v_1, \ldots, v_n$ are the same, then $vol(v_1, \ldots, v_n) = 0$)
From these two properties, we can see that if $e_1, \ldots, e_n$ is a basis of $V$, then the $vol$ function is completely defined by the value $vol(e_1, \ldots, e_n)$.
Thus if $T$ is a linear operator on $V$, the ratio:
$\dfrac{vol(Te_1, \ldots, Te_n)}{vol(e_1, \ldots, e_n)}$
is the same for any (multilinear and alternating) $vol$ function.
However, I am having trouble understanding why the ratio is also independent of the basis $e_1, \ldots, e_n$. This is what I am asking for help with. I can see that this invariance implies that intuitively, every $n$-parallelotope is stretched by the same amount by the operator $T$.
(Our professor then defined the determinant of $T$ as that ratio.)