Is there a monoidal category $\mathcal C$ whose unit object is $I$ (i.e. $I\otimes A\cong A\cong A\otimes I$ for all $A\in \text{Ob}_\mathcal C$), with an object "$-1$" such that $$ (-1)\otimes(-1)\cong I ? $$
(Edit: no one misunderstood, but I'm also asking that $-1\neq I$)
I'm struggling with that since I read this math.SE post... Martin, if you see me, your server rejected every mail I tried to send you. :(