Recall that a word over the alphabet $A\cup A^{-1}$ is a sequence of elements of $A\cup A^{-1}$ where $A^{-1}=\{x^{-1}:x\in A\}$.
The set of all the words over the alphabet $A\cup A^{-1}$ equipped with the operation of concatenation is called the free monoid over the set $A\cup A^{-1}$.
I saw in many books that in order to create a free group we have to introduce the equivalence relation that permits to "delete" the symbols like $xx^{-1}$ and $xx^{-1}$, namely that relation that defines reduced words. The monoid equipped with this relation and the operation of concatenation becomes a group and it is called free group.
Now, why do we need the relation? I mean, if we really need it, why in general we don't use it from the beginning when we speak of free monoids, namely, why a free monoid is defined without this relation?
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