It is well known that two connecting homomomorphisms each belonging to a diagram are combined via naturality (if the two diagrams are commutatively related).
But what about the uniqueness of the connecting homomorphism itself? - i.e only one diagram and at start fixed chosen kernels and cokernels of all morphisms in the diagram
My answer: It is strict unique. My proof: Take two times this one diagram and relate them together commutatively via the identical morphisms. Then given two connecting homomorphisms d and d' of the two same diagramms, they must be equal by naturality.
My question: I want to prove the naturality of the connecting morphism via arrow categories (its very elegant). But therefore I need the strict uniqueness which I can only show using naturality (see above).
So: How can one see directly the strict uniqueness without using naturality? All should live in an abelian category.
Thank you very much for an answer.