I've been looking for less trivial examples of computing Ext than finitely generated abelian groups, which tends to be the standard example (and often the only example). Here's an interesting exercise I found in some notes:
Let $M = \mathbb{C}[x,y] / (x,y), N = \mathbb{C}[x,y] / (x-1)$. My question is how to compute $\text{Ext}_v(M,N)$ in the category of $\mathbb{C}[x,y]$-modules.
Well, first of all $\text{Ext}_0(M,N) = \text{Hom}(M,N)$. However, I'm not sure how to identify what this $\text{Hom}$ is! More generally, we have the short exact sequence
$0\rightarrow K \rightarrow \mathbb{C}[x,y] \rightarrow M \rightarrow 0$
where the second map is the inclusion, the third map is the quotient projection, and $K$ is the kernel of the projection. This sequence gives the exact sequence (a piece of the long exact sequence)
$0\rightarrow \text{Ext}_1(M,N) \rightarrow \text{Hom}(K,N) \rightarrow \text{Hom}(\mathbb{C}[x,y],N) \rightarrow \text{Hom}(M,N) \rightarrow 0$,
which means that $\text{Ext}_1(M,N)$ is the kernel of the map $\text{Hom}(K,N) \rightarrow \text{Hom}(\mathbb{C}[x,y], N)$. But again I'm having trouble determining this kernel.
Finally I think the projective resolution $0 \rightarrow \mathbb{C}[x,y] \rightarrow \mathbb{C}[x,y] \rightarrow \mathbb{C}[x,y]/(x-1)$ shows that the higher Ext's are zero.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.