Suppose we have two independent random variables $X$ and $Y$, with expected values and standard deviations of $(\mu_X,\sigma_X)$ and $(\mu_Y,\sigma_Y)$, respectively. Can we say anything about the expected value and standard deviation of $|X-Y|$?
If it had been $X-Y$, the answer would be $(\mu_X-\mu_Y, \sqrt{\sigma_X^2+\sigma_Y^2})$. However, I think such a straightforward approach is not possible because $P(X>Y)$ is not independent from $P(X,Y)$.