My problem with math is how I talk about it, the words of math. I know math is a language but I don’t translate it very well.
For example, if you have $40$ units and I have $60$ units, from my perspective, you have a third fewer than I do. From your perspective I have half as many again. It’s all relative. Do I have a third more or a half more? Do you have a third less or a half less? Either way it’s still $20$ units in question. Where am I mistranslating the problem?