As you have already noted, $4+ \Bbb i$ is irreducible; $\Bbb Z [ \Bbb i ]$ is a Euclidean domain, therefore a principal ideal domain (PID), and we know that in a PID the ideal generated by an irreducible element is maximal; hence, the ideal $(4+ \Bbb i)$ is maximal, so the quotient ring $\Bbb Z [ \Bbb i ] / (4+ \Bbb i)$ is a field.
On the other hand, every element of $\Bbb Z [ \Bbb i ]$ can be written as $q(4 + \Bbb i) + r$ with $r=0$ or $N(r) < N(4+\Bbb i) = 17$. According to this, the class modulo $(4+\Bbb i)$ of any element is the class of its remainder modulo $4+ \Bbb i$. But what are these posible remainders? Well, they are constructed from the pairs of natural numbers satisfying the inequation $a^2 + b^2 <17$, giving $\{ 0, \Bbb i, 2 \Bbb i, 3 \Bbb i, 4 \Bbb i, 1, 1+ \Bbb i, 1+2 \Bbb i, 1+3 \Bbb i, 2, 2+ \Bbb i, 2+2 \Bbb i, 2+3 \Bbb i, 3, 3+ \Bbb i, 3+2 \Bbb i, 4 \}$ - a total of $17$ elements.
How many fields with $17$ elements are there? Up to an isomorphism, the only one is $\Bbb Z _{17}$ and you are done.