You can't, because the set of elements of the form $aba^{-1}b^{-1}$ may fail to be a subgroup; if it is not a subgroup, then you cannot take the quotient modulo $K(G)$, so you cannot even talk about $G/K(G)$.
(And $XY-YX$ makes no sense in groups; that's the commutator of two elements in a ring, not in a group)
(For examples of groups $G$ in which $K(G)$ is not a subgroup, see here, here, and here)
However, if you define $[G,G]$ to be the subgroup generated by the set $K(G)$, then it is easy to show that this subgroup is normal: if $aba^{-1}b^{-1}$ is a generator, then for every $g\in G$,
$$g^{-1}(aba^{-1}b^{-1})g = (gag^{-1})(gbg^{-1})(ga^{-1}g^{-1})(gb^{-1}g^{-1})\in K(G),$$
so the group must be normal.
Thus, we can now meaningfully talk about $G/[G,G]$.
To show that $G/[G,G]$ is abelian, note that if $a[G,G]$ and $b[G,G]$ are elements of the quotient, then
$$(a[G,G])(b[G,G]) = ab[G,G] = ab(b^{-1}a^{-1}ba)[G,G] = ba[G,G] = (b[G,G])(a[G,G]),$$
with the middle equality because $b^{-1}a^{-1}ba\in [G,G]$. Thus, $G/[G,G]$ is abelian.