Logically derivatives represent the rate of change of the function,the rate of change doesn't take into consideration from what value the function starts to change at that rate.
A simple example is $2x+15=2x$.
Now the other way around if two functions take the same value at one point they don't have to have the same change rate.Other then that you can think it geometrically,they don't have to approach that point from the same path,simple example is $x$ and $-x$ the first one approaches $0$ from left and the second one from right.
And an algebraic approach that was intuitive for me if $f(x)=g(x)$ for all $x\in(c-\epsilon,c+\epsilon)$ and for any $\epsilon$ then $f'(c)=g'(c)$,it seemed clear to me that in most cases $f(x)\not=g(x)$ for all $x\in(c-\epsilon,c+\epsilon)$ so in that cases $f'(c)\not=g'(c)$