In general, for a vector space V, $\dim(V)< \infty$, with subspace $S \subseteq V$ and the set $W :=(V-S) \cup \{ 0\}$ we find that $V \neq S \oplus W$.
For example, if $V=\mathbb{R}^2$ and $S=\{(x,0) : x \in \mathbb{R} \}$. Then take $(a,b), (c, -b) \in W$, for fixed $a, b, c \in \mathbb{R}$ and $a, b, c$ non-zero, and $a \neq -c$. Then $(a,b)+(c, -b) = (a+c, 0) \in S$, proving W is no subspace.
But, some of the time, $V = S \oplus W$. For example, if $S=V$. (But, that seems trivial.)
For what kind of subspaces, $S \subset V$, is this possible?
UPDATE (to clarify)
Okay, then if $V = W_1 \oplus W_2 \oplus \cdots \oplus W_n$ and if $W_1, W_2,..., W_n \neq V$ or { $ 0 $ } then, of course, by definition, we have:
$V = W_1 + W_2 + \cdots + W_n$ and
Wi are pair-wise disjoint (except for the 0 vector)
$W_i \cap (W_1 + W_2 + \cdots + W_{i-1} + W_{i+1} + \cdots + W_n) = \{ 0 \}, \forall i = 1, 2, ..., n$
But you are telling me we also have $V \neq (W_1 \cup W_2 \cup \cdots \cup W_n)$ always.
I could see that $V \neq (W_1 \cup W_2 \cup \cdots \cup W_n)$, some of the time, but it basically never happens unless one of the $W_i$ is $V$!
This really clears things up for me in terms of what a direct sum is really about! It's not like a partition of V it is more like a set of scaffolds for V.