In general, the $\delta$ is given in such a way that can give us enough conditions to get $|f(x)-L|<\epsilon$.
More generally, the method (or strategy) is:
1) To transform an expression like $|f(x)-L|$ into a expression like $|x-a||g(x)|$ where $|g(x)|\leq M$ for all $x$,
2) Then use the inequality $$|x-a||g(x)|\leq M|x-a|<\epsilon$$ (because the case with $M|x-a|<\epsilon$ is an easy one!).
So, in your example, note that your $\delta$ given is such that $\delta = min \{1, \dfrac{\epsilon}{2|a|+1} \}$. Let's analize this one.
It has two "parameters", one is 1, and another is $\dfrac{\epsilon}{2|a|+1}$.
The first parameter 1 is neccesary for bounding |g(x)| and the other "parameter" is necessary for get the $\epsilon$.
Let's take an example. (It´s the classical one, but I'm going to explain you the tricks)
Suppose that you are asked to proof that $$\lim_{x \to a}{x^2}=a^2$$
Then we start by making a preliminar analysis, ie.
$|x^2-a^2|=|(x-a)(x+a)|=|x-a||x+a|$ and note that this has the form of $|x-a||g(x)|$ (with g(x) = x+a). Now we want to find an M>0 such that $|g(x)|=|x+a| \leq M$
To achieve this, let´s say that $|x-a|<1$ (It can be another positive value, but the easiest positive value is nearly always 1). Then we are going to construct our g(x) from here, i.e.
$|x-a|<1$ implies that $-1<x-a<1$, then $-1+2a<x+a<1+2a$, therefore $|x+a|<1+2|a|$ (you can check the details). AND NOTE that the M that we are looking for is $|x+a|=|g(x)|\leq M=1+2|a|$. Also note that a is fixed, so M is a fixed constant.
So we already have that $$|x-a||x+a|=|x-a||g(x)| \leq |x-a| M = |x-a|(1+2|a|)$$. (Note that our chosen 1, let us bound g(x))
NOW WE WANT THAT LESS THAN EPSILON.
So the plan is simple, we should make $|x-a|<\dfrac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|}$.
Next, we have $$|x-a||x+a|=|x-a||g(x)| \leq |x-a| M = |x-a|(1+2|a|)<\dfrac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|}(1+2|a|)=\epsilon$$
That's why our $\delta$ should be $\delta = min \{1, \dfrac{\epsilon}{2|a|+1} \}$. The $1$ bounds our $|g(x)|$ and the $\dfrac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|}$ makes the cancelation posible to get the $\epsilon$. You can say that the $\delta$ has enough conditions (in this case, just two conditions) to solve the problem.
Now the proof will be:
PROOF: Let $\epsilon >0$. Let's take $\delta = min\{1,\dfrac{\epsilon}{2|a|+1} \}$.
If $|x-a|<\delta$, then $|x-a|<1$ and $|x-a|<\dfrac{\epsilon}{2|a|+1}$, therefore $-1<x-a<1$, so $-1+2a<x+a<1+2a$, and we can say that $|x+a|<1 + 2|a|$. (you can check the little details)
Now, note that $$|x^2-a^2|=|(x-a)(x+a)|=|x+a||x-a|<(1+2|a|)\left(\dfrac{\epsilon}{1+2|a|}\right)= \epsilon$$
I hope this may help.