This is exercise 6-4 on page 181 in John Lee's Topological Manifolds book which asks me to prove the above, that is, if $M$ is a boundaryless surface which contains a subset $B$ which is homeomorphic to the Möbius band, then $M$ is of the form $M'\#\mathbb RP^2$ where $M'$ is a boundaryless surface.
I tried to attack it in this way:
Try to find a polygonal presentation for $M$ which has a (possibly non-adjacent) twisted pair $aa$. I know how to make it adjacent by means of cutting and pasting (this process is outlined in part I of the proof of the classification theorem). Then we have $M$ presented as $Vaa$ for some word $V$. So set $M'$ to be the surface presented by word $V$ and we are done because concatenation of words gives the presentation of the connected sum and $aa$ presents $\mathbb RP^2$.
The non-trivial part is to find that crucial twisted pair. For this I thought, first triangulate $M$. Then cut along $B$, a Möbius band sitting in $M$. Do we get a polygonal presentation of $M\setminus B$?
Later I looked at the hint which asks us to show that there is $B_0\subsetneq B$ which is homeomorphic to the Möbius band. That's clear to me. But why consider this subset at all?
I know this counts as two questions, but the aim is to just solve this problem.
Thanks in advance!