The whole issue comes from the fact that regular collision resistant hash functions are defined over binary strings. What you are trying to construct is a collision resistant hash function over a different domain, namely a set of tuples.
To construct a collision resistant hash function for some domain $D$ from a collision resistant hash function for $\{0,1\}^*$ what is necessary is to encode elements of $D$ as elements of $\{0,1\}^*$.
If $\mathsf{H} : \{0,1\}^* \to \{0,1\}^n$ is the original hash function and $\mathsf{E} : D \to \{0,1\}^*$ is an efficient encoding function then $\mathsf{H} \circ \mathsf{E} : D \to \{0,1\}^n$ is a hash function for domain $D$.
However, if it is easy to find collisions in $\mathsf{E}$, then $\mathsf{H} \circ \mathsf{E}$ is not collision resistant, since any collision in $\mathsf{E}$ directly implies a collision in $\mathsf{H} \circ \mathsf{E}$. So to show that $\mathsf{H} \circ \mathsf{E}$ is collision resistant we need that $\mathsf{E}$ is also collision resistant. Since $\mathsf{E}$ does not need to be compressing, the easiest way to ensure that it is collision resistant is to ensure that it is collision free by ensuring that it is a unique encoding.
If $\mathsf{E}$ is a unique encoding, then it is easy to show that $\mathsf{H'} = \mathsf{H} \circ \mathsf{E}$ is collision resistant whenever $\mathsf{H}$ is. Assume towards contradiction that there exists an efficient algorithm $\mathcal{A}$ capable of finding collisions in $\mathsf{H'}$. I.e., $\mathcal{A}$ outputs $x,x' \in D^2$ such that $x \neq x'$ and $\mathsf{H'}(x) = \mathsf{H'}(x')$. By definition of $\mathsf{H'}$ this implies that there are encodings $e := \mathsf{E}(x)$ and $e':= \mathsf{E}(x')$ such that $\mathsf{H}(e)=\mathsf{H}(e')$. And by the fact that the encoding is unique and $x \neq x'$ we have that $e \neq e'$. Therefore an algorithm $\mathcal{B}$ that simply runs $\mathcal{A}$ and encodes the outputs finds collisions in $\mathsf{H}$ with the same probability with which $\mathcal{A}$ finds collisions in $\mathsf{H'}$. Therefore, since $\mathsf{H}$ is collision resistant, so must be $\mathsf{H'}$.
It thus follows that all you need is a unique encoding of your tuples into binary strings. And as correctly observed, if all (or all but one) of the constituent parts of the tuple are of fixed length then simple concatenation is in fact a unique encoding.
However, it should be stressed that this requires all participants to always check that all elements of the tuple they are encoding actually have the required length and rejecting them otherwise. This a check that is easily missed (or maybe even skipped for "efficiency").
Whereas prepending the length -- even for fixed length elements -- ensures that even unchecked malformed tuples will not be able to cause collisions.