Questions tagged [etiquette]

Questions regarding the written rules, or the unwritten customs, that concern proper behavior in the world of chess.

Any questions concerning what is considered proper chess behavior, either according to written rules or unwritten customs, would fall under this tag. Some examples that illustrate this sort of question:

98 questions
42
votes
8 answers

Do you say "good game" after a game in which your opponent played poorly?

Suppose you win a game in a noncompetitive way, when you know your opponent cannot feel good about his play. Maybe he dropped his queen early, to a simple tactic that should have been evident for a player of his level, for example. Do you say "Good…
Eric Wilson
  • 1,257
  • 3
  • 12
  • 20
20
votes
11 answers

How to play against little kids?

Say, in an age range of 7-12 years. One of my friends holds the opinion that you should trounce them at every opportunity, so that they can learn from their mistakes. Another says that you should allow them to win sometimes, so they won't lose…
chubbycantorset
  • 4,616
  • 7
  • 32
  • 53
16
votes
1 answer

What are the essentials of chess etiquette in a serious, over-the-board tournament game?

I'm asking this question to provide players who are starting to play in tournaments a guide on proper behavior during games. I'll give an answer myself - perhaps we could supply an answer collectively via a community wiki.
Andrew Ng
  • 3,804
  • 18
  • 30
15
votes
4 answers

I provided water bottle to my opponent, he drank it then lost on time due to the need of using bathroom. Is this unethical?

Many years ago, I was playing in a chess tournament. We had been at the board for at least three hours. My opponent had spent the entire time at the board trying to find good moves. I had the better position and plenty of time on my clock. My…
Bob
  • 269
  • 2
  • 4
7
votes
7 answers

When you are winning, is it ethical to not go for a checkmate right away?

If you are leading a game, is it ethical to capture your opponent's pieces one by one or go straight for checkmate?
Daniel Fersbeanto
  • 103
  • 1
  • 1
  • 2
5
votes
8 answers

Overkilling the opponent

Every chess player has experienced this at least once in his life: An opponent who refuses to resign, even though being bare-kinged against a rook and 5 pawns... Usually, kids are told to not be tempted and mate in the most efficient way (with the…
Hauptideal
  • 6,172
  • 15
  • 36
4
votes
4 answers

Casual chess meet up in London UK

I’m a (predominantly) online chess player. My rating is roughly FIDE 1800-1900. I’m travelling to the UK next week for work. Is there a place or club or cafe in the inner or outer London area where I can go and find like-minded strangers for a…
Black
  • 179
  • 3
2
votes
1 answer

Should captured pieces remain visible?

I don't think there's a rule about this, but maybe it's a matter of etiquette. Nearly every player I've encountered puts the pieces they capture next to the board, but I've met some who like to store the pieces as soon as they capture them (maybe…
itub
  • 10,516
  • 1
  • 36
  • 51
1
vote
6 answers

Is it disrespectful to pay attention to other things while playing?

Sometimes when I'm playing a variation that I'm comfortable with I get bored while waiting for my opponent to move, so I get distracted and start to pay attention to other things around me. I know that focus is important, and being distracted can…
appa yip yip
  • 131
  • 5
1
vote
1 answer

Would it be offensive to a chess coach to hire another titled player just to play training games with?

Say I have a chess coach, but I hire another titled player to play training games with. Would it be offensive or alright to do? Or they would they care as long as I'm paying them?
user122965
  • 1,895
  • 1
  • 18
  • 25
0
votes
1 answer

Can black make a draw offer?

I am playing a chess game and my opponent is black and he asked me if I would accept a draw since I have a King and a Knight while he has a King and a Bishop. I told him that he can make an offer and he mentioned it's against etiquette when black…
Jeff
  • 1