I have read answer to this question on various sites, but was not satisfied by the answers, because I am not able to understand, that if we remove initially 1 electron from scandium, then 4s would be ome unstable, but if we remove 1 more electron, there remains only one electron in 3d subshell. But we have already observed in many compounds, that heavier metallic elements and highly electronegative atoms force stability of unstable configurations. Also, I read somewhere that in [Sc (H20)6 ]2+ Scandium possesses +2 oxidation state, but when I tried to research more on it, some sites displayed the same compound but a +3 complex instead of +2. I am confused on all of this. Please throw some light on this, and please explain why Scandium cannot exhibit +2 oxidation state, is it just because of instability of 3d subshell? And what are the reasons for instability of 3d subshell, is it only the presence of a single electron? Please detail about this.
P.S. : It was also mentioned on some sites that after removal of one electron from 4s subshell of Sc, very high amount of energy is required for removal of second electron (i.e. I.E. 2 >> I.E. 1). How is this possible?