How do conferences group papers?
(Based on my experience and therefore subjective)
Usually, the programming committee has a meeting to discuss referee reports. On rare occasion, last-minute reviews are being done by PC members to balance the fact that reviewers did not respond timely or in order to understand the review reports better. Before the meeting, the PC chair might divide the submissions into three groups: definitely accept, where the PC is expected to rubber-stamp this decision, definitely do not accept, for instance, because none of the three reviewers voted for a straight accept, or as desk-rejects, and the papers that ought to be discussed. In parallel, the number of papers to be selected is determined.
When the work is done, the Chair with or without help groups papers together by threads. Some papers will cluster naturally, and sometimes they will not, leading to "Odds and Ends" sessions. After the sessions have been determined, they get assigned to dates in the calendar. Even if there is no Best Paper award, the papers that according to the PC and the reviewers are or were candidates, have their session placed in the prime time, usually a session after the key-note talk. Everything else gets a spot assigned usually without much deliberation. Odds-and-ends sessions without a strong paper and without strong cohesion tend to get assigned last session in a day.
Now, big conferences like VLDB and those where the tracks are more independently organized work differently.
TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION:
It is unlikely that someone is out to get you, because the decision making process is too distributed for that to work easily. It might be a sequence of bad luck (statistically slumps are likely to occur) or it might be that your work does not cluster well with other work.
Unfortunately, the conference method of disseminating information has draw-backs, and you are suffering from one. If you look at the history, conferences started out much more as an exchange of ideas before the developed into the main dissemination method of Computer Science.
If conferences accept your papers, someone thinks your work is worth-while. However, even if you end up presenting in a prime spot, your audience tends to be already overwhelmed by the program and you might not get a substantially better reception.
"If you don't like how the table is set, turn over the table"
– Todd Jun 07 '23 at 22:59