The function $\left(1+\exp\left(\frac{1-2|x|}{x^2-|x|}\right)\right)^{-1}$ has several issues.
Firstly, it is discontinuous at $-1,0,$ and $1$, and of these, only the discontinuity at $0$ is removable, since the left and right limits of $\frac{1-2|x|}{x^2-|x|}$ go to $-\infty$ and taking the exponential of this will control that discontinuity. However, this is a ``nice'' discontinuity in the sense that correctly replacing it will make $f$ differentiable at 0.
However, for $\pm 1$, the left and right limits have opposite signs and diverge drastically, so the function is discontinuous there (it is a jump discontinuity). We can't define derivatives at a discontinuous point, so the derivative just does not exist here. The derivative appearing continuous in Desmos is due to the numerical processing and the fact that the left and right limits at $-1$ coincide; $\lim_{x\to-1^-}f'(x)=\lim_{x\to-1^+}f'(x)$.
To see this, first note that if $x\leq 0$, then $|x| = -x$, so $\left(1+\exp\left(\frac{1-2|x|}{x^2-|x|}\right)\right)^{-1} = \left(1+\exp\left(\frac{1+2x}{x^2+x}\right)\right)^{-1}$ on $(\infty, -1)\cup(-1,0)$. This function is clearly differentiable on these intervals.
A thorough application of the chain rule and quotient rule gives
$$f'(x)=\frac{{\mathrm{e}}^{\frac{2\,x+1}{x\,\left(x+1\right)}}\,\left(2\,x^2+2\,x+1\right)}{x^2\,{\left({\mathrm{e}}^{\frac{2\,x+1}{x\,\left(x+1\right)}}+1\right)}^2\,{\left(x+1\right)}^2}$$
We really only care about the exponentials here, since they have a stronger effect on the limit than the polynomial terms, and examining the limit of $\frac{{\mathrm{e}}^{\frac{2\,x+1}{x\,\left(x+1\right)}}}{{\left({\mathrm{e}}^{\frac{2\,x+1}{x\,\left(x+1\right)}}+1\right)}^2}$ shows that this tends to $0$.
You can work out the details of the positive half of the function, but the apparent continuity of the graph of derivative is really due to the numerical processing that Desmos does, although I am not sure what numerical procedure they use.