In differential geometry we identify the operator $\partial/\partial x$ with a vector and $dx$ with a 1-form. We're generally taught that a vector is a directed line segment (at least, in the simplest conception, though obviously the term ``vector'' can apply to other things as we get more general), and a 1-form can be imagined as a set of lines like contour lines. So a vector has a magnitude measured as a length, and a 1-form has a magnitude measured as a density.
And here's where my intuition rebels... It seems to me that even though $dx$ is not simply a ``very small'' version of $\Delta x = x_2 - x_1$, it is similar enough that is should be a kind of length, just as $\Delta x$ is. And likewise $\partial/\partial x$ should be a kind of density, jut as the spacing of contour lines is. After all, if $g$ is a scalar then $\partial g/\partial x$ tells us how much change in $g$ is crammed into an infinitessimal displacement along the $x$-axis. But by this reasoning $dx$ should be a vector and $\partial/\partial x$ should be a 1-form.
So why are these quantities identified in the opposite way to what makes intuitive sense to me? Is there a reason that I'm overlooking, or is it just arbitrary which one you call a vector and which you call a 1-form and once-upon-a-time someone decided on a convention that makes my head hurt? Every discussion of this that I've looked up seems to become a matter of circular reasoning (e.g. you can argue in terms of one choice transforming contravariantly with respect to the basis vectors, and the other transforming covariantly, but this ultimately depends on defining the basis vectors to be of the form $\partial/\partial x$ in the first place.)
Thanks in advance