This answer requires that $\tilde{H}(x)$ is differentiable on an interval $(a,\infty)$. In the following analysis, $\tilde{H}(x)$ has been replaced with $f(x)$ to make the assumptions more explicit and traceable. I have refactored the logic into small units to increase reusability.
Lemma 1. Let function $f(x)$ be real-valued and nonnegative on $(a,\infty)$, and suppose that for $r > -1$ the integral
$\int_a^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx$ is convergent.
Write
$$\displaystyle f(x) = \frac{g(x)}{x^{r+1}}$$
Suppose further that $g(x) \to c$ as $x \to \infty$ where $c$ is finite. Then $c = 0$.
Proof of Lemma 1. For $x > a$, $f(x)$ is nonnegative so $g(x)$ is nonnegative hence $c \geq 0$.
Now suppose that $c > 0$ and let $\epsilon = \tfrac{1}{2}c$. Then $\epsilon > 0$, so from $g(x) \to c$:
$$
\text{there exists}\ x' > a \ \text{such that if}\ x > x' \ \text{then}\ |g(x) - c| < \epsilon
$$
or equivalently
$$
\text{there exists}\ x' > a \ \text{such that if}\ x > x' \ \text{then}\ c - \epsilon < g(x) < c + \epsilon
$$
so in particular
$$
\text{there exists}\ x' > a \ \text{such that if}\ x > x' \ \text{then}\ g(x) > c - \epsilon = \tfrac{1}{2}c
$$
Therefore
$$\begin{align*}
\int_a^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx
&=
\int_a^\infty \frac{g(x)}{x} \, dx
\\&=
\int_a^{x'} \frac{g(x)}{x} \, dx
+
\int_{x'}^\infty \frac{g(x)}{x} \, dx
\\&\geq
\int_a^{x'} \frac{g(x)}{x} \, dx
+
\int_{x'}^\infty \frac{c}{2x} \, dx
\end{align*}$$
Now the second term on the righthand side diverges to infinity but the lefthand side is a convergent integral by assumption. Contradiction, therefore $c = 0$. $\blacksquare$
Lemma 2. Let function $f(x)$ be real-valued and nonnegative on $(a,\infty)$, and suppose that for $r > -1$ the integral
$\int_a^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx$ is convergent.
Write
$$\displaystyle f(x) = \frac{g(x)}{x^{r+1}}$$
Suppose further that $f(x)$ is differentiable and nonincreasing on its domain.
Then there exists $c \geq 0$ (finite) such that $g(x) \to c$.
Proof of Lemma 2.
Let $\left\{ x_n \right\}_n$ be any strictly increasing sequence of numbers drawn from $(a,\infty)$. Construct $\left\{ g_n \right\}_n$ by putting $g_n = g(x_n)$ for each $n$. Proceeding in four steps:
It is sufficient to show that there exists $c$ finite such that $g_n \to c$ as $n \to \infty$. The function $f(x)$ is nonincreasing so its limit as $x \to \infty$ is either finite or $-\infty$. Furthermore $f(x)$ is nonnegative so the option of $-\infty$ is excluded and the limit must be nonnegative. Meanwhile the function $d(x) = x^{r+1} \to \infty$ as $x \to \infty$. Now $g(x) = f(x)d(x)$ therefore $g(x)$ either has a finite, nonnegative limit or it diverges to infinity. So suppose there exist sequences $\left\{ x_n \right\}_n$
and $\left\{ x'_m \right\}_m$ such that if $g_n = g(x_n)$ for each $n$ and $g'_m = g(x'_m)$ for each $m$ then $g_n \to c$ as $n \to \infty$ and $g'_m \to c'$ as $m \to \infty$ but $c \neq c'$. Construct sequence $\left\{ x''_k \right\}_k$ by merging $\left\{ x_n \right\}_n$ and $\left\{ x'_m \right\}_m$ in increasing order. Then as $k \to \infty$, $g(x''_k)$ does not converge. Contradiction hence $c = c'$. Therefore if $g_n \to c$ finite as $n \to \infty$ for any given sequence $\left\{ x_n \right\}_n$ then $g(x) \to c$ as $x \to \infty$.
$\displaystyle g'(x) \leq (r+1)\frac{g(x)}{x}$ for all $x > a$. The function $f(x)$ is differentiable on $(a,\infty)$. Indeed
$$\begin{align*}
f'(x) &= -\frac{r+1}{x^{r+2}}g(x) + \frac{1}{x^{r+1}}g'(x)
\\&=
\frac{1}{x^{r+1}}\left(
g'(x) - (r+1)\frac{g(x)}{x}
\right)
\end{align*}$$
on that interval. Now for $x > a$, $f(x)$ is nonincreasing so $f'(x) \leq 0$. Meanwhile $1/x^{r+1}$ is nonnegative. Therefore
$\displaystyle g'(x) - (r+1)\frac{g(x)}{x} \leq 0$
for $x > a$ and result follows immediately.
For all $\epsilon > 0$ there exists $t > 0$ such that if $t \leq x_i \leq x_j$ then $g_j - g_i < \epsilon$. Let $\epsilon > 0$. The integral
$\int_a^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx$
is convergent so there exists $t$ such that
$$
\int_{t}^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx < \frac{\epsilon}{r+1}
$$
noting that $r+1 > 0$ by assumption.
Now if $t \leq x_i \leq x_j$ then
$$\begin{align*}
\int_{t}^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx
&\geq
\int_{x_i}^{x_j} x^r f(x) \, dx
& \text{as $f(x)$ is nonnegative}
\\&=
\int_{x_i}^{x_j} \frac{g(x)}{x} \, dx
\\&\geq
\int_{x_i}^{x_j} \frac{g'(x)}{r+1} \, dx
& \text{by step 2}
\\&=
\frac{g_j - g_i}{r+1}
\end{align*}$$
and result follows immediately.
$\left\{ g_n \right\}_n$ is a Cauchy sequence. We need to show that for any $\epsilon > 0$ there exists $N$ such that if $m,n > N$ then $|g_n - g_m| < \epsilon$. So let $\epsilon > 0$. By step 3, there exists $t > 0$ such that
$$
\text{if}\ t \leq x_i \leq x_j \ \text{then}\
g_j - g_i < \frac{\epsilon}{2}
\tag{1}\label{eqn:boundjumpup}
$$
Let $\ell = \inf\left\{ g_n : x_n \geq t \right\}$.
Now $g(x)$ is bounded below (by zero) so $\ell$ is finite.
Hence by the definition of infimum, there exists $N$ such that $x_N \geq t$ and
$\displaystyle g_N < \ell + \frac{\epsilon}{2}$.
Indeed
$\displaystyle g_N - \frac{\epsilon}{2} < \ell$.
Moreover, to emphasize the construction of $\ell$, if $k \geq N$ then $\ell \leq g_k$. Consequently
$$
\text{if}\ k \geq N \ \text{then}\
g_N - \frac{\epsilon}{2} < g_k
\tag{2}\label{eqn:boundbelowgN}
$$
Meanwhile, applying (\ref{eqn:boundjumpup}) with $i = N$ and $j = k$ yields
$$
\text{if}\ k \geq N \ \text{then}\
g_k - g_N < \frac{\epsilon}{2}
$$
or equivalently
$$
\text{if}\ k \geq N \ \text{then}\
g_k < g_N + \frac{\epsilon}{2}
\tag{3}\label{eqn:boundabovegN}
$$
Now suppose $m,n > N$. Then (\ref{eqn:boundbelowgN}) and (\ref{eqn:boundabovegN}) yield
$$\begin{align*}
g_N - \frac{\epsilon}{2} &< g_m < g_N + \frac{\epsilon}{2} \quad \text{and}
\\
g_N - \frac{\epsilon}{2} &< g_n < g_N + \frac{\epsilon}{2}
\end{align*}$$
therefore $|g_n - g_m| < \epsilon$ as required.
Having established that $\left\{ g_n \right\}_n$ is a Cauchy sequence of real numbers, it follows immediately that there exists $c$ finite such that $g_n \to c$ as $n \to \infty$. Result follows from step 1. $\blacksquare$
Proposition. Let function $f(x)$ be real-valued and nonnegative on $(a,\infty)$, and suppose that for $r > -1$ the integral
$\int_a^\infty x^r f(x) \, dx$ is convergent.
Write
$$\displaystyle f(x) = \frac{g(x)}{x^{r+1}}$$
Suppose further that $f(x)$ is differentiable and nonincreasing on its domain. Then $g(x) \to 0$ as $x \to \infty$.
Proof of Proposition. Apply Lemma 2 and then Lemma 1. $\blacksquare$