In functions of one variable, the derivative is the slope of the tangent line to graph of $f(x)$.
The tangent line to the curve $y=f(x)$ at $x=a$ is given by,
$h(x)=f(a)+f'(x)(x-a)$
As $x \rightarrow a$, $f(x)$ approaches the tangent line $h(x)$. On a computer algebra system like Mathematica, if you zoom in at the point $x=a$, $f(x)$ looks more and more like the tangent line $h(x)$. $f'(x)$ is it's slope.
In fact, a function is said to be differentiable, if there exists the limit :
$$\lim_{x \rightarrow a} \frac{f(x)-h(x)}{x-a}=0$$
The Jacobian matrix plays the role of the derivative of a vector-valued function $\mathbf{f}$,
$$\mathbf{f}=(f_1(x_1,\ldots,x_n),f_2(x_1,\ldots,x_n),\ldots,f_m(x_1,\ldots,x_n))$$
of $n$ input variables and $m$ output variables.
For concreteness assume, $m=1$, $n=2$, that is a function of two variables.
Analogous to the single variable case, the tangent plane to a surface $z=f(x,y)$ at the point $(x_0,y_0)$ is given by,
$h(x,y)=f(a,b)+Df(x,y)\cdot (x-a,y-b)$
where $Df(x,y)=\left[\frac{\partial f}{\partial x},\frac{\partial f}{\partial y}\right]^T$ is the Jacobian matrix.
As $(x,y) \rightarrow (a,b)$, the surface $f(x,y)$ approaches the tangent plane $h(x,y)$. On Mathematica, if you zoom in at the point $(a,b)$, $f(x,y)$ looks more and more like the tangent plane. $\partial f/\partial x$ is the increase in the function value, for small bump $\Delta x$. $\partial f/\partial y$ is the increase in the function value, for small bump $\Delta y$.
On similar lines, a vector valued function is said to be differentiable, if there exists the limit :
$$\lim_{\mathbf{x} \rightarrow \mathbf{a}} \frac{\mathbf{f(x)}-\mathbf{h(x)}}{||\mathbf{x}-\mathbf{a}||}=0$$